The Next Level with Jeff Agostinelli

Each week we’ll bring you a new episode with an EXCEPTIONAL entrepreneur, author, thought leader, speaker or leader in their field. The goal of The Next Level Podcast is to inspire and educate by extracting key lessons from those who have already been there. Each week our special guest will gift you a download, secret, tip or strategy to help YOU get to The Next Level.
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Dec 11, 2017

Tim Larkin is a former military intelligence officer with a 25 year career where he has trained people in 52 countries in how to deal with imminent violence. Over 10,000 clients are trained in his Target Focus Training (TFT) from Military Special Operations Units, Special Law Enforcement Teams, Celebrities and high profile business leaders on how to use physics and physiology to injure any human(s) trying to attack them. TFT is the original Reality Based Fighting System.

His numerous magazine covers and articles in the Martial Arts and self-defense industry are as controversial as his “pro-victim advocate” position on self-protection. He is a highly sought after speaker as well as the media’s “go to guy” on Self Defense and Victim’s rights.

Today we'll unpack Tim's new book, When Violence Is the Answer: Learning How to Do What It Takes When Your Life Is at Stake, and get to know the ins and outs of this topic that most people don't want to think about.

In this episode you'll learn

  • Why it doesn’t make you a bad person to learn the tools of violence for self-protection
  • How to pick up on social cues to know when you may be in real danger
  • The key differences between fighting, martial arts, and self-protection protocols
  • How to know when it’s an appropriate time to use violence
  • Learning to identify and exploit the weakness of an attacker
  • Strategies to maintain emotional composure under fear
  • How to make better decisions to minimize the chance of encountering violence
  • Why the brain should always be used as your primary weapon
Dec 7, 2017

Something that a lot of us men are missing out on is real authentic connection with other men. Like a lot of things that somehow find their way into my life, I didn't know it was something I needed until it found me.

My friend Billy introduced me to the work of Dr. Robert Glover and his book, No More Mr. Nice Guy. After diving into his work and having him on the show, I started attending a men's group with my friend Billy and about 8-10 other guys every other week.

One of the exercises we've done in the group is sharing a story, something we did, or something that happened to us that we haven't shared, or that we are ashamed of. I really underestimated the power of such a simple exercise.

In today's episode, I'll unpack what I'm starting to understand about shame and some things that are unfolding as a result of entering the darkness to find the light.

In this episode you'll learn

  • Some ways that shame potentially gets passed on and creates a false identity
  • How shame can only live in hiding
  • Leaning into being uncomfortable
  • Putting yourself into situations where you may have felt embarrassed in the past
  • The surprising result of having a support system
Dec 4, 2017

Growing up an Irish boy in East London, Steve Sims was the son of a brick mason. This laid the foundation, yes... pun intended..., for his insane work ethic. Steve paints this amazingly vivid picture in his new book Bluefishing: The Art of Making Things Happen, where he saw his dad, uncles, and cousins. His entire family tree down the line of ladders. In that moment he realized that he would eventually be that next one on the ladder for the rest of his life. That night, he quit.

The second he was clear there was a different way to think, he took action.

Ever since Steve has been pulling off the unimaginable. He's been able to make his clients' wildest dreams come true, from a wedding at the Vatican, to being serenaded by Andrea Bocelli, to powerful business introductions to moguls like Elon Musk.

Steve Sims is is the visionary founder of Bluefish: the world’s first luxury concierge company that delivers the highest level of personalized travel, transportation, and cutting-edge entertainment services to corporate executives, celebrities, professional athletes, and other discerning individuals interested in living life to its fullest. He has been invited to speak to MBA students at Harvard (twice), has spoken at the Pentagon, and has been featured in major media all around the world: From The Sunday Times and China Post, to The Wall Street Journal.

Today we'll dive into how Steve pulls the strings and the art of Bluefishing.

In this episode you'll learn

  • How Steve built his luxury concierge service that delivers extravagant adventures to rich and famous clientele
  • Why most people are scared to acknowledge or go after their deepest passions
  • Strategies to develop and nurture your personal relationships
  • How raw transparency will help others connect with your vision
  • The power of using video messaging to spark excitement and connection
  • How many of today’s entrepreneurs are misallocating their time
  • Why genuine engagement is more important than the size of your following
Nov 30, 2017

Any time we try to change something in our life, we find out how we REALLY handle change. We all have a very predictable way that we respond emotionally to the uncertainty that inevitably arises when we go about creating change. This emotional response is woven into the fabric of our current circumstance and when we can understand what that response looks like and make peace with the present, we can start to cultivate the emotions of our end goal and maintain the emotional terrain necessary for change.

In this episode you'll learn

  • How to cultivate the set of emotions that you want to experience
  • Why getting clear on what you want to experience instead will help you create peace with the present
  • How to stay centered even when you feel triggered
  • Tips for fueling your future and not the frustration of the present moment
  • A set of questions to ask yourself about how you really want to feel
  • How you always have a choice to choose something different
  • Playing the game of to do's and to be's to get to where you want in life
  • How to extract the lessons from life's situations
  • A nightly practice to cultivate new actions and emotional states
  • How you respond to change
Nov 27, 2017

Even after achieving financial success he felt something deeper calling. Using what he learned in that external journey, Nate applied his lessons of higher accountability and responsibility to developing communities and sharing his gifts with those around him.

Nate Lind, the youngest of six kids, is an entrepreneur, explorer and investor. He is the founder of Legendary Man an 8-figure e-commerce company, and one of the most popular men’s grooming and lifestyle brands in the world.

His first taste of financial success came in his early twenties when he became proficient in the art of buying and flipping houses. When he saw the impending housing crash coming in 2007, he transitioned from flipper to Fortune 100 consultant, with projects at the world’s largest financial institutions like Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac. By 2011 he was recruited to Bank of America as a Vice President.

Though he’d tasted wealth, married, started a family, he found a deep sense of emptiness in his own purpose outside of family. As he began looking for opportunities to fill that emptiness he discovered men’s grooming products such as beard oil and a unique brotherhood like no other.

Nate introduced his first proprietary beard oil, product and watched every aspect of his life start to improve. Nate’s most recent project is a culmination of his community building, events and e-commerce experience – the launch of Legendary Man. Legendary Man inspires men to discover their inner hero and to create community through adventure.

In this episode you'll learn

  • The power of authentically connecting as men and why it’s become a lost art in the world today
  • Nate’s modern-day definition of powerful and positive masculinity
  • Strategies to overcome your internal and external limitations
  • How to find support and encouragement by surrounding yourself with a band of brothers
  • Learning to identify when the shadow side of your masculine characteristics may arise
  • How to become an authentic leader and build a community around your mission
  • The power of giving and providing value before asking for something in return
  • Why the caregiving aspect of masculinity is commonly overlooked
  • and MORE…
Nov 23, 2017

There are countless ways to manage overwhelm, and I've found these three things consistently over time put everything else in place.

  1. Having a keen awareness when it hits
  2. Eliminating distraction and guarding your time
  3. Creating blocks of time for focused work

A funny thing that happens when we are overwhelmed, especially when it's something that we don't necessarily want to deal with, is that we'll procrastinate. The number one way this shows up is increasing distractions.

Try out these 3 simple things and let me know how it goes.

In this episode you'll learn

  • How to focus on what you can do and eliminate anything that will take you off course
  • Why getting into deep focused work is so rewarding
  • Ways we prevent ourselves from taking action
  • What the message is behind overwhelm and anxiety
  • How to guard your time and set your priorities
  • Parkinson's Law - work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion - and how to effectively block time
Nov 20, 2017

As the professional landscape continues to change, now more than ever, it's becoming increasingly important to understand your core gifts and what makes you uniquely YOU.

Steve Olsher is known as the world’s foremost reinvention expert. Famous for helping individuals and corporations become exceptionally clear on their WHAT—that is, the ONE thing they were created to do—his practical, no-holds-barred approach to life and business propels his clients and presentation attendees toward achieving massive profitability while cultivating lives of purpose, conviction and contribution. He is the New York Times bestselling author of What Is Your What? Discover The ONE Amazing Thing You Were Born To Do, international keynote speaker, Chairman & Co-Founder of, and in-demand media guest who has appeared on CNN, Fox Business and other national outlets.

Today we dive into Steve's book What is Your What? and how to find out what you were born to do.

In this episode you'll learn

  • How to start uncovering your purpose and bringing your core gift to light
  • Why waiting for future events or conditions to make you happy will keep you from living in the present moment
  • How to move off the wanderer's path and awaken the search for your deeper what
  • Why comparing yourself to others on social media can create unrealistic expectations for your happiness
  • How to let go of preconceived notions and open up to new experiences
  • Why your core gift stays the same, but the 1 thing you’re meant to do may change over time
  • How to find deeper fulfillment by sharing your gift with others
  • Why putting too much pressure on yourself to figure out your purpose can be harmful
  • and MORE…
Nov 16, 2017

When I got very clear on how I wanted to feel and acting and creating from that place, things got a lot more fulfilling.

Now, please hear me on this one. I'm definitely not saying I've got this perfect, that's why it's called a practice :) BUT when I can continually nudge myself in the direction of cultivating a heightened emotional state and bringing awareness to how I actually feel, shit gets a lot easier.

If you're yet to hear episode 100 where I review some of the major lessons learned from the first 100 episodes with my buddy Ian Ryan, be sure to check that out. In addition to my major lessons learned, I also talked about what I would have done differently and how I would have started these solo rounds a lot sooner. BUT... better late than never right :)

In this episode you'll learn

  • How to take the mundane and make it feel more sacred
  • My favorite strategy for taking your to do's and making them to be's and building spiritual capital
  • Successfully mining the transition from one activity to another to create more meaning
  • A simple practice for connecting with your deeper why
  • How to weed out what's working and what's not based on your results
  • Why visiting your outcome in your imagination can spark new ideas
Nov 13, 2017

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What does it mean to seek better than the norm, to truly live an extraordinary life? Our life experiences and the meaning we attach to them create who we are and shape our reality. Bonnie opens this beautifully by saying "what you believe is what you perceive." On our journey to becoming whole, addressing our deeply held beliefs about who we are is the springboard for true healing and creating the life you envision.

Bonnie Kelly teaches people how to de-weed their minds of underlying Negative Core Beliefs and cultivate a beautiful garden of emotional health and balance. As an author, personal development and emotional intelligence expert, motivational speaker and founder of Bonnie Kelly & Associates and MindFu Academy™, Bonnie has dedicated her life to helping others stop the cycle of self-sabotage. From her experiences as an abused child to her life on the streets as a teen to being in and out of jail and rehab, she has experienced life’s lowest points firsthand. When she hit rock bottom, she became determined to change her life for the better. Now, she is supporting individuals, groups and businesses in understanding what it means to operate from a place of emotional clarity and wellness.

Corporate groups she has worked with include Genetech, Union Pacific, California Nurses Association, Solano County Probation Department, Benicia USD, Keller Williams and Brandman University. At the heart of Bonnie’s work is her year long Emotional Resilience Training program, which helps people end patterns of unconscious self-sabotage and transform their lives for the better. Her new book is entitled, “True to Your Core: Uncovering the Subconscious Beliefs Wreaking Havoc in Your Life.”

Today we dive into Bonnie's book, True to Your Core and unpack what it means to create an extraordinary life.

In this episode you'll learn

  • How to let go of the old programming that leads to mental and emotional suffering
  • Ways to “win the war of your worth” by turning down the critical inner voice
  • Understanding how your emotional state impacts your decisions, actions, and the people around you
  • Ways to unpack and rewire the subconscious beliefs that make you feel unworthy
  • How to move forward and find a new path after losing your identity
  • Why the muscles of self-development need to be trained on a regular basis
  • Strategies to overcome procrastination and avoid self-sabotage
  • How to make sure you don't settle for a less than extraordinary life
  • and MORE…
Nov 6, 2017

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What a ride! After 100 episodes of the show I wanted to jump on and do something a little different. There have been a lot of lessons learned, things I would have done differently, and what the show is going to look like moving forward.

Today I'm joined by my good friend and host of The Fearless and Healthy Podcast, Ian Ryan, where he turns the tables and interviews me on my biggest lessons and insights from the first 100 episodes.

In this episode you'll learn

  • Valuable lessons from the past 100 interviews with the world’s top leaders
  • How to condition your body and mind to better handle adversities throughout the day
  • Ways you can avoid the surface-level fluff in the personal development space
  • How to develop faith, trust in the process, and act on your inspirations and ideas
  • Becoming brutally honest with yourself and doing the deeper work required for change
  • Using appreciation to pull yourself out of an emotional rut
  • Learning to embrace the “season of suck” when you decide to try something new
  • Avoiding the mental roadblocks that keep you from going to your next level
  • How to get clear on your priorities and develop a precise plan of action
  • Finding your spiritual sobriety and releasing the constant need for stimulation
  • and more...
Oct 30, 2017

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Every lineage has a different name for the part of yourself that can wreak havoc in your life. Christianity has the Devil and Demons, Vedic traditions have the concept of Maya, and my guest today believes it's time for a new definition for the reactive attached mind. In his new book, Sh#t Your Ego Says, James McCrae takes us on our journey through the pivotal times in his life where he overcame being his own worst enemy.

Dubbed by The Huffington Post as “…the Eckhart Tolle of the Internet Generation,” James McCrae is the author of Sh#t Your Ego Says and an award-winning strategist and writer at the intersection of creativity and mindfulness. He works with people and organizations around the world to unlock creative potential and turn imagination into results. An avid supporter of basketball, burritos, and yoga, James lives in New York City.

Today we are going to dive into James book Sh#t Your Ego Says: Strategies to Overthrow Your Ego and Become the Hero of Your Story.

In this episode you'll learn

  • How a mindfulness practice can help recenter and refocus your life
  • When you should view fear as an indication of your deeper calling
  • How to start living your purpose now instead of waiting for conditions to be perfect
  • Releasing the need for outside approval and becoming more comfortable in your own skin
  • How to separate yourself from incessant thoughts and become the observer of your own mind
  • The power and strength you can find when working towards your higher purpose
  • Developing the courage to trust and act on your intuition
  • and MORE…
Oct 23, 2017

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After failing public school and being expelled from several continuation schools, MC YOGI has a life changing experience when he was introduced to yoga, which he describes as “a coming home experience.” His story is filled with so many instances of grace, hope, and inspiration. It shows that no matter what your life is like right now, you always have the power to find your true path AND experience grace along the way.

MC YOGI is a world-renowned yoga teacher and musician. He has performed and taught yoga everywhere, from head-lining festivals and nightclubs to performing in the Forbidden City in China and even at the White House. When not on the road, MC YOGI and his wife Amanda teach at their home studio, Point Reyes Yoga, in Northern California.

Today, we dive into his first book SPIRITUAL GRAFFITI: Finding My True Path, a memoir that recounts his journey from gangs to grace.

In this episode you'll learn

  • The physical and emotional benefits we receive from connecting with our breath
  • Transcending the thinking mind to let our art and creativity flow through us
  • How we can develop clarity around the guiding principles of our life
  • The inner peace and balance we receive from a yoga practice
  • Finding the courage to share our art and creativity with the world
  • How we can begin to walk the path towards our destiny
  • Why doors begin to open when you truly commit to something
  • The transformative power of books and the written word
  • How to get out of our heads and reconnect with the body
  • and MORE…
Oct 16, 2017

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I absolutely love and find it very refreshing when I come across a body of work that has a healthy dose of self inquiry, utility, AND edge.

In his new book Unfu*k Yourself: Get out of your head and into your life, Gary John Bishop dives into 7 assertions to help you shift the narrative you tell yourself.

Gary began his life journey in Glasgow, Scotland. The grit and wit of his early life have contributed to his tough-love, in-your-face approach to personal development. Coupled with world-class training, Gary has created a potent brew of effectiveness and the ability to reach through the crust of people's lives and root out the deeper issues that consume them and tie them to their challenges. His ability to elevate and expand people's greatness makes the kind of life-altering impact that is rare in the industry. Gary's hyper-awareness and years of elite training allow him to assess each client and guide them to the path that best expresses their lives; with micro precision, he cuts straight to the heart of what is going to make a difference.

This book was a great read for so many reasons. Right at the top of the list is how raw and real it is... no fluff. In a sea of quick hits and short quotes that lack depth, these assertions and the questions they lead to will give you a very useful set of tools to begin unpacking why you do what you do and what to do from here.

Today we are going to unpack Unfu*k Yourself and get deeper into how Gary used some of these in his own life to overcome obstacles.

In this episode you'll learn

  • How to step up in life and begin to take action
  • Why we should challenge our self imposed limitations
  • Learning to thrive during times of uncertainty
  • How we can stop undermining our own greatness
  • The need to face reality and take a stand for who we want to become
  • Why future expectations get in the way of our current happiness
  • Using assertive language to redirect our inner dialogue
  • and MORE…
Oct 9, 2017

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When it comes to seeing life as an interconnected network governed by our ability to allow abundance to flow into our experience, my guest today has his story to tell.

Growing up having very little, wearing out of date clothes that were often too small, and even being the one with the tape between his eyeglasses that you only thought happened in movies were just a few things Christian Mickelsen overcame on his journey to a life of plenty... abundance.

Christian Mickelsen is one of the most influential coaches, healers, and business leaders in the world. His company has made the Inc. 5000 list of fastest-growing companies in America 3 years in row. As a leading authority in personal development and personal coaching, he's written the #1 bestselling book Get Clients Today along with several others, including his newest personal growth book published by Hay House Abundance Unleashed: Open Yourself to More Money, Love, Health and Happiness Now. He's been featured in Forbes, Yahoo Finance and MSN. He lives in San Diego, California with his amazing wife and three super fun daughters.

Christian dives into a lot in his new book and one thing I've personally experienced and have seen in friends and clients is the energy of being needy. This is just one of the ways we fail to recognize the abundance in our lives, and after hearing Christian dive into this more in today's show, you'll have some insight on how to see if this is present in your life and what you can do to shift it.

Today we are going to unpack Christian's new book Abundance Unleashed: Open Yourself to More Money, Love, Health, and Happiness Now.

In this episode you'll learn

  • How to stop pushing away the things we desire
  • The Reasons we fail to recognize the abundance in our lives
  • How we can manifest and create more happiness and success
  • Ways to overcome fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs
  • How we can transform our pain into peace
  • Strategies for moving past mental blocks around wealth
  • How to better manage our thoughts and emotions
  • and MORE…
Oct 2, 2017

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My guest today helps men to overcome something he calls the "nice guy syndrome." I was pretty shocked after digging into this work how many characteristics I've seen in my own relationships.

Now you may be thinking what I was when I first heard the title... Does that mean I just have to be an asshole? You'll hear (just like I found out) this isn't the case. Dr. Glover suggest that a recovering nice guy (you know, on the other side) turns into an integrated male.

Dr. Robert Glover is the author of the bestselling book, No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want In Love, Sex and Life. His website features numerous online self-help courses, workshops, groups, and trained coaches and therapists. Dr. Glover lives in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.

We dive into No More Mr. Nice Guy and unpack some of the tendencies of a nice guy and what it means to become an Integrated Male.

In this episode you'll learn

  • Tendencies that often come with the “nice guy syndrome”
  • The importance of learning how to set boundaries
  • Why we have to make our own needs more of a priority
  • How to show up powerfully, and be clear and direct with our plan
  • The problem with always trying to please others
  • How emotional tension can actually generate more connection
  • Why the “nice guy syndrome” often stems from anxiety
  • How the disempowered male can reclaim his masculine energy
  • Ways to move past our feelings of resistance
  • The importance of having support systems in our life
  • and MORE…
Sep 25, 2017

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Kute Blackson is a next generation world leader out to awaken millions to Love and to Live their inspired destiny.

Kute quickly learned that the “outside-in” approach favored by so many in the personal development space had to become an inside-out approach. So he decided to create his own method—a process that liberates the individual and the true self at the core and then pushes those gifts outward into the universe. This helps the individual get in touch with who they really are. It is a process of breaking free—so that the individual can live, give, and share the truest expression of their self. This is what Kute calls “Liberated Living.”

Kute is back on the show to celebrate the release of the paperback copy of You Are The One: A Bold Adventure in Finding Purpose, Discovering the Real You which shows readers how to unlock their true potential and live a life they love, through love.

Today we'll dive deeper into Kute's journey in writing the book, what's transpired over the year it's been out through getting the message out and what he's had to face along the way. We'll also dive deeper into some of the key concepts of his book You Are The One: A Bold Adventure in Finding Purpose, Discovering the Real You.

In this episode you'll learn

  • The lessons we receive from challenging times in our life
  • How we can bring more love into our thoughts, actions, and intentions
  • The importance of getting in touch with our deeper emotions
  • How to get out of our own way and allow life to unfold through us
  • The ways we can tap into the authentic voice of our soul
  • How to develop more dedication, commitment, and focus
  • Why seeking the truth will move us closer towards our authentic vision
  • The benefits of a deep reflection practice
  • and MORE…
Sep 18, 2017

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With the many advances in science over the last 10 plus years, especially in the field of genetics, we've seen a good bit of the books rewritten from the old model that our genes are our destiny. We've had a number of guests on the show talking about this from a mind over matter perspective, and today we'll hear from Dr. Sharad Paul about the genetics side of the equation.

Dr. Paul is an award-winning author (fiction, nonfiction, poetry and medical textbooks), a prolific contributor to major national and international magazines and journals including MindBodyGreen, and a frequent radio and television guest.

Dr. Sharad P. Paul, MD is a skin cancer surgeon, family physician, academic, skincare expert, evolutionary biologist, storyteller, and social entrepreneur, as well as an adjunct professor at Aukland University of Technology. Born in England, with a childhood in India, he is a global citizen who lives Down Under. In 2008, was featured in international editions of Time and in 2015 was awarded the prestigious Ko Awatea International Excellence Award for Leading (Health) Improvement on a Global Scale.

Today we'll unpack Dr. Sharad Paul's book, The Genetics of Health: Understand Your Genes for Better Health.

In this episode you'll learn

  • Why genetics may be our blueprint… but they are not our destiny.
  • How we can express different genes by controlling diet, exercise, and lifestyle.
  • Why procrastination may stem from an evolutionary adaptation.
  • How our faith and beliefs can determine our genetic expression.
  • Some mindfulness techniques for reducing anxiety.
  • Ways we can optimize our energy and vitality.
  • How stress plays into our health and genetics.
  • Why movement and exercise can reduce the risk of cognitive disease.
  • The importance of avoiding stress causing foods.
  • and MORE...
Sep 11, 2017

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We all have a particular journey in life, lessons to learn, and a path that leads us to those lessons. Before I came across personal development, and the art and science of maintaining your mindset, food was my medicine. It still is the foundation of my lifestyle, and being nimble in thought, feeling, and action is the #1 skill I continue to zero in on and develop in my every day life, and especially when life presents it's unique challenges.

My guest today has a long track record of success in the fitness and nutrition space. Her most recent book, Miracle Mindset: A Mother, Her Son, and Life's Hardest Lessons tells the story of her son's near fatal accident that called upon all her mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual resources to continue moving forward and keeping faith through a very challenging time.

Celebrity nutrition and fitness expert JJ Virgin teaches clients how to eliminate food and carb intolerances so they can transform their health and their lives. As co-host of TLC’s Freaky Eaters and health expert on Dr. Phil, JJ is a prominent TV and media personality, including appearances on PBS, Dr. Oz, Rachael Ray, Access Hollywood, and the TODAY Show. JJ is the author of four NY Times bestsellers: The Virgin Diet, The Virgin Diet Cookbook, JJ Virgin’s Sugar Impact Diet, and JJ Virgin’s Sugar Impact Diet Cookbook.

Her latest book, Miracle Mindset, shows warrior moms how to be strong, positive leaders for their families, while exploring the inspirational lessons JJ learned as she fought for her own son’s life. JJ hosts the popular JJ Virgin Lifestyle Show podcast and regularly writes for Huffington Post, Rodale Wellness, Mind Body Green and other major blogs and magazines. In addition to her work with nutrition and fitness, JJ is also a business coach and founded the premier health entrepreneur event and community, The Mindshare Summit.

Today we dive into JJ's story of what she did to navigate this challenging time and how she maintained focus on her son being able to live a thriving life again, even after what seemed like many end of the road situations along the way.

In this episode you'll learn

  • How we can find the courage to overcome challenging moments in life.
  • Why forgiveness is a necessary part of the healing process.
  • How to reduce our patterns of negative thinking.
  • Daily rituals and lifestyle habits to help us mentally detox.
  • Ways to avoid getting trapped in the victim mentality.
  • Why developing curiosity will lead to more growth.
  • How we can maintain hope during troubling times.
  • The importance of the way we frame our questions.
  • Strategies for building a more resilient mindset.
  • and MORE…
Sep 4, 2017

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It's one thing to perform optimally for the task at hand, but what does it actually mean to consistently perform your best?

Working with top level athletes and understanding how their belief, thoughts and behaviors affect their performance is what Dr. Stan Beecham is all about.

Dr. Stan Beecham is a sport psychologist and director and founding member of the Leadership Resource Center in Atlanta, Georgia.

Since 1998, Beecham has been helping organizations maximize performance and realize the full potential of their human resources. Senior executives utilize Dr. Beecham’s expertise to guide them through the process of selecting and developing high performance teams. In addition to his coaching and consulting engagements at the Leadership Resource Center, he is a professional speaker and writer committed to advancing the science of leadership development.

Today his work with collegiate, Olympic, and professional athletes from many sports has afforded him an insight into the minds of great competitors that only few have had the good fortune to gain.

In his book, ELITE MINDS: How Winners Think Differently to Create a Competitive Edge and Maximize Success, Dr. Stan Beecham dives into a a number of concepts that are typical of what he calls Elite Minds. We get into some of these in today's show, and the mental processes and tactics behind them.

In this episode you'll learn

  • The mindset needed to create a competitive edge.
  • How we can conquer fears and reach our higher calling.
  • The difference between doing better and doing our best.
  • How we can build persistence, embrace the journey, and move forward.
  • The psychology that will move us closer to our full potential.
  • How to set physical boundaries so we maintain a better work-life balance.
  • The ways meditation will alter the activity and chemicals in our brain.
  • How the expectation of success can help us get into the flow state.
  • Ways we can frame our language to produce better outcomes.
  • How to take action on things that we don't necessarily want to do.
  • and MORE…
Aug 28, 2017

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I've noticed something and I'm curious if you have too... Is it just me or is everyone wearing a tracking device these days? Yes, wearables have a definite upside. They can help you stay accountable, increase gains, and record way more data than we can manually. BUT have we switched out the reward of happy hormones and flow for better metrics?

Today I sat down with Phil White, to talk about his new book Unplugged: Evolve From Technology to Upgrade Your Fitness, Performance & Consciousness and how we can come back to training our instincts instead of solely relying on our devices.

Phil White is an Emmy-nominated writer and the co-author of Unplugged with Brian Mackenzie and Dr. Andy Galpin, Game Changer with Dr. Fergus Connolly and Jim Harbaugh and Flight Plan with Dr. Kelly Starrett. He's also a frequenter contributor to The Inertia and SUP Magazine.

There is a lot in here. Before I made the connection between feeling overwhelmed and an excess in obsession over metrics, I didn't really know consciously that I had traded out some of the natural benefits of fitness and progress for better looking stats. At the very least, I hope this show inspires you to view your fitness tracking and health stats as more of a tool instead of a metric of success.

In this episode you'll learn

  • If all the tracking and quantifying we do is truly increasing our insight and outcomes.
  • The importance of unplugging and being fully present in an outdoor environment.
  • How to develop more intrinsic motivation, instead of relying on cue’s from our devices.
  • Ways to decide if technology is going to add to, or take away from an experience.
  • How we can better get in touch with our own internal feedback.
  • The unethical marketing that may arise from large companies tracking our data.
  • How spending more time in nature can help us get into a state of flow.
  • and so much MORE…
Aug 21, 2017

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With all the stress and distraction that comes with our modern lifestyles, it's becoming increasingly important to have a variety of tools at our disposal to reduce the feeling of stress and access more confidence on demand.

My guest today has a series of books outlining strategies to do exactly that... in one minute.

Tony Wrighton is an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Trainer and Master Practitioner. His self-development audiobooks have sold over 100,000 copies and have been Top 10 bestsellers on iTunes in many countries around the world. In addition to his work as an NLP coach, Tony has been a TV and radio presenter on Sky Sports since 2006. He is a regular on Sky Sports News HQ, and also the regular presenter of Golfing World. He hosts a roster of other sports on Sky Sports channels 1-5.

He is the host of top-rated podcast Zestology, interviewing a wide range of experts in the field of health and personal development, and having lots of fun along the way. He regularly appears as a guest on other shows talking about energy, vitality, and motivation.

Today we'll unpack some of Tony's strategies for how to Relax In A Minute and how to have Confidence In A Minute.

In this episode you'll learn

  • Skills for dictating our mood, getting more out of ourselves, and managing our lives.
  • How we can use the technique of anchoring to improve our levels of concentration.
  • Strategies for developing more confidence.
  • How to enhance our storytelling and influence by appealing to our visual, auditory, and kinesthetic senses.
  • Ways to utilize past memories to improve our current mood.
  • The benefits of expressing our goals based on emotions and personal fulfillment, instead of using specific metrics.
  • How we can use negative persuasion to ignite our motivation.
  • and so much MORE…
Aug 14, 2017

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There's no doubt that the mindful use of language can be soothing for our emotional state and those we speak with. My guest today began to synthesize her system of Conscious Communications with one major goal at her collection agency... to have the person on the other end of the phone happier.

Mary Shores tested this system in an environment where people naturally get defensive and emotional. This really speaks to the effectiveness of Conscious Communications in helping diffuse potentially charged conversations.

Mary Shores is the founder and CEO of a multi-million dollar business, one of the most unique collection agencies in the country. Recognized as a leader of innovative thought, Mary has spent over a decade teaching businesses and individuals how to inspire others, create new ways of thinking, identify and achieve their goals, and take action to create truly meaningful results. She is the revolutionary founder of the groundbreaking Conscious Communications system, which produces positive results through positive action.

Today we'll unpack the system and dive into Mary's new Hay House published book, Conscious Communications: Your Step-by-Step Guide to Harnessing the Power of Your Words to Change Your Mind, Your Choices, and Your Life.

In this episode you'll learn

  • How we can experience a new reality by shifting our internal dialogue.
  • The daily habits that rewire our neural pathways for greater success.
  • How to create more alignment between our desires, thoughts, and actions.
  • Ways to invoke deeper states of relaxation, and limit our stress response.
  • How to embrace and appreciate our value and self-worth.
  • Strategies to ensure we don't talk ourselves out of the things we truly want to accomplish.
  • How we can frame our language to create more effective affirmations.
  • and so much MORE…
Aug 7, 2017

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My guest today, through decades of research, her lab work, and peer reviewed publications, has presented a new theory of emotion in her most recent book How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain.

Lisa Feldman Barrett, PhD, is a University Distinguished Professor of Psychology at Northeastern University, with appointments at Harvard Medical School and Massachusetts General Hospital. In addition to the book How Emotions are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain, Dr. Barrett has published over 200 peer-reviewed, scientific papers appearing in Science, Nature Neuroscience, and other top journals in psychology and cognitive neuroscience, as well as six academic volumes published by Guilford Press.

Dr. Barrett received a National Institutes of Health Director’s Pioneer Award for her revolutionary research on emotion in the brain. These highly competitive, multimillion dollar awards are given to scientists of exceptional creativity who are expected to transform biomedical and behavioral research.

Among her many accomplishments, Dr. Barrett has testified before Congress, presented her research to the FBI, consulted to the National Cancer Institute, appeared on Through The Wormhole with Morgan Freeman, and been a featured guest on public television and worldwide radio programs. She is also an elected fellow of Canada’s most prestigious national organization of scholars, the Royal Society of Canada (analogous to the National Academy in the United States).

Today we'll dive into her book How Emotions Are Made and what these new findings could mean in relationships, personal change, and so much more.

In this episode you'll learn

  • The new theory that our emotions are less of a hardwired response, and actually created in the moment.
  • How to break down emotions into smaller parts, and give new meaning to those sensations.
  • The ways that beliefs can impact and alter our perception.
  • How we can stop emotions from overtaking our thoughts and actions.
  • Why the brain lives in a perpetual state of guessing and predicting... and how this affects learning and processing information.
  • How we can construct our current reality by rewriting our past experiences.
  • and so much MORE…
Jul 31, 2017

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Could there be a potential down side to positive thinking? If you've tuned into the show before, you've heard me have many conversations with leaders and authors on the benefits of positive thinking, imagination, and other methods characteristic of the self-help and positive psychology movement.

On some level I think we know that pushing away or even suppressing seemingly negative emotions is counterproductive. All the while we get mixed messages, from social media etc., that always staying positive is the way to be.

In this interview, I sat down with Oliver Burkeman to chat about all things positive psychology and his book, The Antidote...

Oliver Burkeman is a columnist for the Guardian and the author of The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking.

I see this book and Oliver's work as a bit of a holistic approach to the mind and emotions. These concepts helped me see the terrain of the human experience on an all inclusive level. Where we can be positive, have a positive outlook on life, and integrate and potentially transform some of those seemingly negative feelings and thoughts.

In this episode you'll learn

  • About the negative side effects that come from too much positive thinking.
  • Why it's important to experience our negative emotions.
  • How always having to strive and push ourselves takes us away from the present moment.
  • Why we shouldn't wait until we FEEL motivated before taking action.
  • How to move past the planning stage and take action.
  • How we can use unfavorable emotions as warning signs.
  • Why always having to “get into the right mindset”, can cause us to procrastinate.
  • Learn strategies to tolerate uncertainty and anxiety.
  • And so much MORE…
Jul 24, 2017

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If you have spent any time in the personal development space at all, you've heard about this place... your comfort zone and all the magical benefits of getting out of it.

Yes, as you'll hear my guest talk about today, there are the benefits of growth and learning (among others) that come with stretching beyond what we think is possible, but there's a little more to it than that.

Andy Molinsky is a Professor at Brandeis University’s International Business School, with a joint appointment in the Department of Psychology.  Andy received his Ph.D. in Organizational Behavior and M.A. in Psychology from Harvard University. He also holds a Master’s Degree in International Affairs from Columbia University and a B.A. in International Affairs from Brown University.

Andy’s work helps people develop the insights and courage necessary to act outside their personal and cultural comfort zones when doing important, but challenging, tasks in work and life.

His research and writing has been featured in Harvard Business Review, Inc. Magazine, Psychology Today, the Financial Times, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Boston Globe, NPR and Voice of America. Andy was awarded as a Top Voice for LinkedIn for his work in education.

His first book, Global Dexterity (Harvard Business Review Press, 2013), received the Axiom Award (Silver Medal) for Best Business Book in International Business & Globalization and has been used widely in organizations around the world, including Boeing, AIG, the US Air Force Academy, and the Clinton Foundation, among others. His new book Reach was published with Penguin Random House in January 2017.  He teaches, consults, and lectures widely to university and corporate audiences.

Today we'll talk about his book Reach: A New Strategy to Help You Step Outside Your Comfort Zone, Rise to the Challenge and Build Confidence and much more...

In this episode you'll learn

  • Ways we can get prepared to take a leap outside of our comfort zone.
  • How to manage internal conflict and move forward with courage.
  • How to find the balance between over planning and rushing into action.
  • Why we shouldn’t over-glorify taking a leap, but treat it as a process of learning and self-discovery.
  • How to embrace the unknown by developing curiosity and excitement.
  • Why sometimes it's beneficial and appropriate to stay inside of our comfort zone.
  • How to make progress in spite of fear and anxiety.
  • Learn attributes we can develop to better navigate uncomfortable situations.
  • and so much MORE…
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